Celebrating the Sacrament of Marriage (Matrimony)

Arrangements for the celebration of marriage here at Saint Joseph parish must be made with the Pastor at least six months in advance. (It is better if you check a year in advance. A word to the wise, call the Parish Office and book the church prior to looking for a reception hall. A list of the rules for the ceremony in the church will be given during your first meeting with the pastor, or you can obtain one from the parish secretaries.

Preparation for marriage includes gathering documents together, arranging for testimony to be taken concerning your current marital status from those who know you best, and your baptismal status. A baptismal certificate is mandatory and the pastor can help you to arrange for the submission of the certificate. 

A first meeting with the pastor will include “filling out the paperwork,” and outlining the process and steps needed to prepare for the Sacrament of Marriage. 

A FOCCUS test instrument will be used to help with Communication Skills and readiness for the Sacrament; followed by the feedback sessions. An overview session concerning Natural Family Planning will be required and a list of possible dates will be provided. A Pre-Cana visit with couples from the parish will also be required.

Meeting with the pastor to plan the ceremony itself follows all other preparatory sessions and should be scheduled with the pastor for a time approximately one month to three weeks prior to the wedding date.